Do you only talk to “cute, slim, petite” women? Anyway, this argument is old and tired. Yeah, really, good-looking people have it easier in dating? Sure they do. But lots of women DO seek smart and funny — and compatibility. When they have 2 out of 3, they may not be as excited as they wish they were, and just like men, they can’t force feelings that aren’t there. It’s almost like women aren’t allowed to ever say no.

Journalist & author of nerdy novel CARRIE PILBY (film version‘s on Netflix). Finishing up offbeat memoir. Love dogs & puns. Read more: http://carenlissner.com.

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